I read this book a few months back and really enjoyed it. In one particular chapter, the author explained a theory called "The Broken Window Theory".
"...originally identified by New York City Police Department. This theory claims that any sign of social of physical neglect or breakdown in a neighborhood invites further neglect or breakdown because it indicated that no one cares, that no one is in charge. Therefore the first broken window or street sign. . . can lead to deterioration if not attended to promptly."
So, the example the author uses is a dining room table. It goes for awhile clean and fine and then in a hurry someone sets their keys down along with their purse. Then the next person sets their stack of papers down and by the end of the day the poor dining room table has become the family "catch-all."
I have a confession to make-- we have a "broken window" in our house.
Here it is:
*This is embarrassing, please don't tell anybody our dirty little secret.
I have come up with one solution: it's going to take daily intervention. I know that sounds dramatic (and it kind of is.) I am going to try something new-- each evening after picking up and straightening up around the house, I will spend a couple minutes organizing this counter. I will set my kitchen timer for 3 minutes and put away all the things I can in that amount of time. Will it work? Seriously, no idea- but I'll give it a try and I'll let you know! Wish me luck!
Now off to the General Relief Society Dinner and Broadcast. I am so looking forward to this. I feel like it's very rare that I get to go sit and listen to a church meeting- let alone sit with my girlfriends and enjoy a nice dinner. It's going to be a good night, I can tell.
11 comments:
I wish I only had one little counterspace that needs constant work!
I have a counter like that in my kitchen too and I am the only one to blame for it. Great idea to clean it up every night! I loved the broadcast; wasn't it so great! Hope you are having a nice Sunday.
I also have a corner of countertop. It is so true that once one thing goes there it just piles up so quick. This is why I don't do coffee or end tables either.
That is a funny post cuz we just walked in the door and set everything down on the dining room table. We always do it and I hate it! You couldn't see your picture...but I know what it looks like, you are funny!
Love the broken window counter. And I think it's SO true what they say about letting one thing go and then everything just seems to follow. Good luck with your plan to fix your broken window. I'll have to figure out my own plan soon. :)
yes the picture worked now. thanks for sharing this, i love it when i realize that we all have more in common than we think...hahaha
I have been thinking about this...and you know what I think...I think everyone NEEDS a space like this. I little release, a little freedom to be messy. It is just a tiny little spot!
I have such a wise sister, thanks for putting it in perspective. Although, you must be careful and not let this "freedom" take over the entire kitchen or house!
So glad to see I am not the only one with some piles like this! Phew!!! OK- there is an amazing photographer in my ward that does everyone's pics around here. She is also the professional photographer for HUSH baby boutique! Her website is: JennyMasonPhotography.com
oh my gosh you are so funny. i have a random small little counter space that is kind of the same, except not as bad as yours....but thats OK because sometimes you just need a space to throw some crap! i like you should let it live on. don't ever clean it. ok maybe one day but for now, you're pregnant and deserve a space to throw random things so you don't have to worry about anything else. and this, my dear, is my sermon for the day.
We all have a little place like that in our homes, unfortunately I have a guest bedroom and a laundry room that needs a little TLC. Be grateful it is only a counter space!!
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